Men are just as fragile, perhaps more so than we women are in spite of all the tough exteriors and bravado, all the player attitudes and get it done perspectives. Once broken, some of their hearts never mend.

Men want to know they’re wanted not just needed.

Men want to be admired and held in high esteem, respected and honored, desired and lusted after.

Men need to know and be shown that what they do is valued and appreciated just as much as we women do.

Men on the average aren’t looking for perfection, they like what they like….and sometimes even find there’s something to like they didn’t think they could or would like….that is, when some very astute woman shows them what it is they’ve been missing!

Men may be able to totally detach their emotions, especially when it comes to sex but that doesn’t mean they are lacking in emotion, they aren’t allowed nor conditioned to be as vulnerable as are we women. Men are emotional when they know its safe to be that way, but even then they don’t emote the way we do. We often don’t recognize, misunderstand or misinterpret the messages their emotions are sending. So, in turn we fail to respond appropriately to what it is they’re telling us about how they feel about us and/or a given situation. That is especially true when it comes to reading the warning signs and blinking red lights telling us women to steer clear of those types who are so damaged that they actually are lacking in human emotions.

But when it comes to sex, the woman is always in the driver’s seat whether she realizes it or not. She’s just gotta fully embrace the wealth of her allure and understand the depth of her power. Because when she does, she’ll realize most men are at her mercy, a willing slave for her they’ll be!

Ultimately….

“When we’re happy, They’re happy!”